The Great Gen Z Gaze

Gen Z’s Lack of Service Aptitude Infuriates Customers

Some are calling it the “Gen Z gaze”. Recently, on the platform X, older generations complained about the lousy customer service they are receiving nowadays, mainly from the younger generations. X user @pbprot shared a post that gained over 1.7 million views and started a firestorm of back-and-forth opinions.

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Why are the younger generations weak at customer service?

As a society, we are now relationship disadvantaged. A 2024 study found that 40% of adults go three or more days without a single face-to-face conversation. This suggests many people today may have fewer than one in-person interaction per day.

The so-called friendship recession describes a long-term trend: since 1990, the share of people with 10+ close friends dropped from 33% to 13% in 2021. Fewer close social ties likely mean fewer daily interactions. Teen habits also changed dramatically: whereas teens in the ‘90s typically hung out in person regularly, only about 25% of teens today spend time with friends outside school daily.

Detailed time‑use surveys from decades ago suggest people spent 1–3 hours daily in social interaction, often face-to-face, likely several meaningful interactions daily. Today, many people likely fall well below that once-common daily social threshold—some even go days without a real conversation.

Research underscores that face-to-face interactions are more vital for mental health and well-being than texting, calls, or Zoom. Many psychologists argue we’ve lost valuable in-person social time compared to previous generations.

*Related – The Most Effective Way To Train Gen Z On Customer Service


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About The Author

John DiJulius

John R. DiJulius is a best-selling author, consultant, keynote speaker and President of The DiJulius Group, the leading Customer experience consulting firm in the nation. He blogs on Customer and employee experience trends and best practices.